the rise and fall of lola the muskrat

BL w frog hat

Dear Baby Lola (hereinafter “BL“):

I’m trying not to be pissed at you.

You see, for the first 2 years of your life, you were dreamy.  You were the sweetest of the babies.  Your smile was an infection everyone wanted to catch.  You were good with new acquaintances.  You were good at restaurants.  You were good on long plane rides.  Your potty training was an easy weekend in which no one contemplated suicide.

For the past 2+ years, I called you “my baby” when talking to your mom about you.  As in, “My baby and I are going to the playground.  Your baby just took a shit on the new area rug and is dancing on it!”

BL at table

But all that changes on your birthday tomorrow when you turn 3.

3 is the age all children spend a year firmly entrenched in the Will of the Devil.  3-year-olds argue.  They’re insolent.  They may get such euphemistic descriptions for their behavior as “being willful” or “acting cranky-pants” or “talking back,” but any parent of a 3-year-old knows that what you’re really doing is “replacing all feelings of affection that have built over the past 2.9 years with feelings of desperation, frustration, indignation, and resignation until you turn 4.”  Or, maybe that’s just your mom and me.

Please don’t act like your older siblings did when they were 3.  We really have a good thing going here.

So tonight, on your last night as a 2-year-old, I’ll say this:  happy birthday, sweet BL.  Hold onto 2-years, as long as you can; changes come around real soon, frustrate women and men.

BL

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17 Responses to “the rise and fall of lola the muskrat”

  1. Jason says:

    Such words, all in an honest plea by a father to not have to put another child on the naughty list. All my best Muskrat. You’ll need it.

    Jason
    The Cheeky Daddy
    Jason´s last blog post ..Baby Talk

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    muskrat Reply:

    thanks! i hope she bucks the trend.

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  2. “Will of the Devil.”
    Yup. Sounds about right.
    Didactic Pirate´s last blog post ..No Virginia, There is No Such Thing as Extra Credit

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    muskrat Reply:

    not what i wanted to hear, buddy.

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  3. Terrible Two’s were nothing. Three and four are when they figure out how to push your buttons. Godspeed!
    Always Home and Uncool´s last blog post ..Coaching the Untalented

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    muskrat Reply:

    3>4>2 in my experience, where “>” = “sucks harder than.”

    that concludes our math lesson.

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  4. Yep. You’re screwed. Good luck! ;)
    Coal Miner’s Granddaughter´s last blog post ..Dialog, Part 34

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    muskrat Reply:

    thanks. :-(

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  5. Pretty Bride says:

    But she’s so pretty!!

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    muskrat Reply:

    very!

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  6. Yup, that about sums it all up. My kids are 5 and 7 now, but the three-year-old in them still makes an appearance time and again.

    And nice call-out to John Mellencamp at the end.
    BEaLittleWeird´s last blog post ..Something For Everyone – Bruce, Rick and Mega Man

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    muskrat Reply:

    as long as it drastically tapers off with each passing year…

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  7. Miss Britt says:

    I think if you’re still calling her your baby after two, you’ll breeze through three.

    Three might be awful, but two is when it begins.
    Miss Britt´s last blog post ..Actually, You Do NOT Have to Love Yourself to Be Loved By Others

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    Miss Britt Reply:

    Crap. It’s suddenly occurred to me my kids might just be assholes…
    Miss Britt´s last blog post ..Actually, You Do NOT Have to Love Yourself to Be Loved By Others

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    muskrat Reply:

    i doubt it! they look so sweet in the instagram pictures!

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  8. neal says:

    Happy third. I miss the twos. On the other hand, now my kid’s potty-trained, so there’s that.
    neal´s last blog post ..Some thoughts on aliens and the miracle of life

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    muskrat Reply:

    it helps, for sure.

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